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Dining tips will help you a long way. Whether you are holidaying
in abroad or on a work project, the following tips come handy. Learn
them to save yourself from embarrassing moments.
CHOPSTICKS
Pick
up one chopstick as you would a pencil, in the middle of the chopstick,
holding it between the base of your thumb and your index finger,
using your third and fourth fingers for support. This leaves your
index finger free. Place the second chopstick parallel to the first,
holding it firmly between the thumb and index finger. The first
chopstick remains stationary, while the second one is used as a
lever.
Rather than lowering head to plate, lift the small bowls of rice
to just below your mouth for eating. Place the chopsticks across
your bowl or plate between bites or at the end of the meal. Some
Japanese restaurants provide a small ceramic piece on which to rest
your chopsticks.Don't be embarrassed to ask for help, and if you
are more comfortable using a fork, ask for one.
CREPES (Pancake), BLINTZES (Stuffed Pancake) & TORTILLAS
(Bread)
There are almost as many kinds of crêpes as there are Frenchmen
in Aisne, for every ethnic group has its own form of the stuffed
pancake.
A dessert crêpe (crêpe suzette or blini) is eaten with
a fork and spoon. Cutting and eating are done with the spoon; stabilizing,
with the fork.
The blintze, a thin pancake rolled around a cheese or fruit filling
and either fried or baked, is eaten with a knife and fork. It is
often accompanied by sour cream, a dollop of which can be placed
on each piece. Never dip a piece of blintze into the sour cream.
The Chinese crêpe may be filled with a mixture of meat (pork
is typical), sauce and lettuce. It is rolled and eaten from the
hand.
Hot tortillas may be folded in quarters and buttered. Or you may
hold one flat in your hand or on a plate, put some beans or other
mixture in the center and roll it like a cigar. Eat from one end
to the other.
FINGER BOWLS
Finger bowls are genuinely helpful after eating artichokes,
shellfish, and corn on the cob, asparagus or any other handheld
food. And they're easier to use than you might think. Just dip the
fingers of one hand and then the other into the bowl, and wipe them
with a napkin. Never bring the water to your mouth.
After you've used a finger bowl presented on a dessert plate, pick
up the dessert silver (if it is on the plate) and put it to either
side of the plate, then lift the finger bowl and its doily and place
it to the left of the plate. This requires two hands.
FONDUE
For cheese fondue, spear a piece of bread on a fondue fork and dip
it into the pot of hot cheese. Coat it and remove it from the cheese,
but hold it over the pot for a few seconds to drip and cool —
then eat. Try not to touch the fork with your lips or tongue, because
it goes back in the pot.
For a meat fondue, plunge a speared piece of meat into the hot oil
to cook. When it looks as if it's done to your requirements, the
meat is removed to a plate and eaten with a regular fork while your
next piece is cooking. Accompanying the meat fondue is usually a
choice of sauces; put these sauces on your dinner plate with either
a ladle or serving spoon. Then, with your knife, push some sauce
onto the dinner fork you've used to spear the meat.
HOW TO DRINK IT
Drinking coffee, tea and other hot drinks from a mug is
common in informal settings. A saucer may be provided underneath
for you to put your teaspoon on. Most often, though, there isn't
one. If there are paper mats, the spoon may be placed facedown on
one of them, or on the edge of a butter plate or dinner plate. Don't
drink from a mug with a spoon in it — not least because you
run the risk of poking yourself in the eye.
Tea bags should be placed against the edge of your saucer after
the excess liquid has been squeezed out, either by pressing the
bag against the side of your cup or mug with a spoon or by setting
the bag in the spoon and wrapping the string around the bowl of
the spoon and bag. If there isn't a saucer or plate, ask for one.
Remove long-handled spoons from iced tea or coffee before drinking.
If coffee or tea slops into your saucer, ask for a new saucer. If
this is inconvenient to do and paper napkins are available, use
one to absorb the liquid on the saucer and let it sit there as a
sponge. This is more advantageous than dripping across the table
or yourself.
A glass of red wine is held at the base of the bowl. A glass of
white wine is held by the stem — to preserve its chill.
A brandy snifter is warmed by rolling the bowl between both hands,
and is then cupped in one hand. The warming brings out the bouquet.
If there are olives, onions or cherries in your drink, you may remove
them with your fingers; it is easier to wait until all the liquid
is drunk, when you can tip the glass back to allow the garnish to
slip into your mouth.
Never put a glass down on an unprotected surface in someone's house.
Ask for a coaster.
If you spill liquid, try not to create too much of a fuss. Simply
ask the host or hostess where you can find a sponge to clean it
up.
Never dunk anything into your drink.
Don't ever blow on a hot drink to cool it. Stir it quietly or wait
until it cools.
NAPKINS
A large dinner napkin is placed on the lap folded in half.
If it is a luncheon-sized napkin, open it all the way. If you leave
the table during a meal (or when you do so at its conclusion), never
put your napkin on the chair. Always place it, loosely folded, to
either the right or left of your plate.
PAPER WRAPPERS
If you've ever been torn between the ashtray and the floor,
here's what you should really do with those little pieces of paper.
Sugar wrappers can be tucked under your saucer or next to your plate,
lying flat. Leave butter wrappers or jelly containers on your butter
plate.
PASTA
Thick macaroni, lasagna or cannelloni can be cut with a
fork if size requires it, and any remaining sauce can be sopped
up with fork-speared bread.
Spaghetti is eaten with a fork. Pick up just a few strands and twirl
them on a fork. You may need the aid of a large spoon to help with
the winding, but never lift the spoon from the plate. You can also
have a small piece of bread in readiness to buttress the fork if
you want to avoid the frowned-upon spoon. Never cut spaghetti.
If your platter comes with sauce and grated cheese on top of the
pasta, it can be tossed with a spoon and fork prior to eating. The
remaining sauce can be picked up with small pieces of speared bread.
PIZZA
A pie-shaped wedge of pizza is held in your fingers with
the sides curled up to avoid losing the filling. If the slice is
large, you may eat it with a knife and fork.
CAVIAR
If caviar is passed to you in a bowl or crock with its
own spoon, serve a teaspoonful onto your plate. As the following
accompaniments are offered, use the individual serving spoons in
each to take small amounts of minced onion and sieved egg whites
and yolks, as well as a few lemon slices and a couple of toast points.
Assemble a canapé to your taste with a knife and then use
your fingers to lift it to your mouth.
If you're at a cocktail party or reception where prepared caviar
canapés are being passed on trays, simply lift one off the
plate and pop it into your mouth.
CHEESE
Cheese is spread on a cracker with the knife that accompanies
each kind.
When cheese is served with a salad, you can spread it on a cracker
or a small bit of bread with either a fork or knife, or else a piece
of cheese may be broken off on your plate with a fork and eaten
with lettuce. Soft, runny cheeses, such as Brie and Camembert, are
always spread with a salad knife or butter knife.
Dessert cheeses served with fruit are easily handled: Just quarter,
core and/or pare the apples or ripe pears, and then eat the cheese
with a fork and the fruit with either a fork or your fingers. Alternate
bites of fruit and cheese.
SOUPS
Soup may be served either in a soup plate or in a cup,
depending on the type of soup and the formality of the meal.
Clear soups are often served in small, doubled-handled consommé
cups. You can test the heat of the soup with a spoon and then lift
the cup to drink it. Any vegetables or noodles left at the bottom
can be eaten with a spoon. A two-handled cream-soup bowl is larger
than a consommé cup. You can drink the soup or use a spoon.
In both cases, when you are finished, place the spoon on the plate
underneath and to the right of the cup.
When a soup plate is used, always spoon away from the table's edge.
When you reach the bottom, you can tilt the plate slightly away
from you. When using a soup spoon, always sip from the side and
never put the entire bowl of the spoon into your mouth.
Tiny crackers or bread crump can be added to soup, whole, a few
at a time. Larger crackers should be eaten separately - except with
such hearty soups as chowders at informal meals, when you can add
a few pieces at a time.
At all times, drink soups quietly.
CUTTING STYLES
The general rule is to start from the outside and work
your way toward the plate. The dessert fork and spoon are usually
supplied as needed; sometimes, however, they are found at the top
of the plate, parallel to the table edge.
There are two styles for cutting: The two-step European,
or Continental, style and the four-step crossover American style.
Both are acceptable.
In the two-step cutting method, the knife is held in the right hand
(unless you are left-handed, in which case you may reverse these
directions) and the fork in the left throughout the procedure. With
the tines of the fork facing down, the food is cut and the fork
brought to the mouth, tines down.
In the four-step method, the fork starts in the left hand, the knife
in the right, and the main dish is cut. The knife is then placed
flat on the plate, and the fork is switched to the free right hand
and turned right side up in the process. It is brought to the mouth
in the right hand.
When resting between bites, place the knife and fork, handles to
the right, on the plate. Never rest them on the table. When you're
finished, place the utensils side by side, across the middle of
the plate, handles right, to secure their removal.
Food is always served from the left, and the silver service fork
is placed to the left of the spoon, with both utensils angled in
toward the food so that they can be easily picked up by the next
person served. Also, start eating hot food when it is served —
don't wait for everyone to begin.
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