Understanding Your Teenager
The years between childhood, adolescence and maturity involves
rapid change. Growing up is a
normal process - all that makes it difficult is the interaction
of the child with those around him
or her. Given below are a few common problems a parent would
face. Being aware of the
problems and understanding the fact that these behavioural traits
are normal in the growing up
process, helps parents to deal with them. And, finally remember
one thing, that every child and
every family is different.
Teenage Behaviour
The teenager is self-conscious and obsessed with self.
He / She apes friends and their behaviour.
Friends are more important than parents.
Is intolerant and quarrelsome with siblings.
Sees issues from his or her point of view.
Makes his / her own decisions and starts to think independently.
Experiments with different clothes, tests boundaries and
takes risks.
Questions parental attitude.
Debates every issue. Extremely argumentative at times.
Neglects school work.
Adolescent Development
Adolescence is often accompanied by an increase in autonomy
and emotional distance from the parents.
During adolescence, peer friendships mean more than the
parents.
Adolescents are more likely to be open with their friends,
discussing such issues as dating,
sexuality, personal experiences and common interests.
Characteristics of Adolescent Friendhips
Loyalty is a highly valued aspect of friendship.
Adolescents believe that friends should not talk about one
another behind their backs.
Friends should 'stick up' for one another.
Intimacy is also highly valued. (Adolescents have a need
to share their innermost thoughts and
feelings with a friend.)
Adolescents also tend to seek out relationships that are
relatively stress-free, safe and comfortable.
Friends also have similar attitudes on issues such as dating,
partying and religion.
TIPS TO COMBAT STRESS
 In
today's hi-flying lifestyle, time is a factor which causes
tremendous amount of pressure on people. Whether it is due
to examinations or because of pressure at work. Here we suggest
some simple exercises for people who need help
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